Word Of the Week #527: Persistence

September 10, 2014 by · Comments Off on Word Of the Week #527: Persistence 

Persistence continuing in a course of action without regard to opposition or previous failure.

Have you ever failed at something and continued to try again? Are you willing to do “whatever it takes” to get what you want?

This is more follow up on self-motivation from Daniel Goleman’s book on Emotional Intelligence. He says, “What seems to set apart those at the very top of competitive pursuits from others of roughly equal ability is the degree to which, beginning early in life, they can pursue an arduous practice routine for years and years. And that doggedness depends on emotional traits – enthusiasm and persistence in the face of setbacks – above all else.”aa pers

One of the most successful people I have read about and seen on stage failed for five years before he started having some degrees of success. Now, that’s persistence!

You probably have heard of him too. He moved to Nashville to make it as a country singer. He was rejected by 26 record labels before securing a record deal. His debut album sold only 324 copies. Flat broke; he moved to south Florida and played in the local bars where, at times, nobody even showed up.

In 1974, he had his first hit single. But it wasn’t until 1977 that he became an “overnight” star. Have you figured out who it is? Jimmy Buffet! He continues to be one of the top grossing acts and has a cult following. He has continued his success by creating a clothing company, restaurants, writing children’s books and several other ventures.

This week’s focus is on persistence. The question is, “Would you be persistent for seven years?” When we really want something and know it in our heart, we will do whatever it takes to keep going. Is there anything you want that would make you continue in a course of action without regard to opposition or previous failure?

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WOW Word-Of-the-Week #270: Impression

October 5, 2009 by · Comments Off on WOW Word-Of-the-Week #270: Impression 

Impression – your outward appearance.

Do you agree that first impressions are lasting impressions? Have you ever made a first impression that changed once you spent more time with that person? What does your outward appearance say about you?

Impressive Impression

Impressive Impression

Parade Magazine featured an article on Jay Leno titled, “Persistence Pays Off.”  Jay says, “I travel around the country, and I meet people who are worried about finding a new job. I understand how tough it is.  I’ve had horrible experiences myself. When I was starting out as a comedian, I went to see an agent one time. He said, ‘We’ll call you if we need anything.’ As he was talking to me, I looked over at this trash can and saw my picture torn in half there.  He must have thrown it out before I showed up. Sure, he was going to call me. But that’s okay – those are just bad job interviews.”

“If you really want a job, do whatever it takes to make a good impression. Years ago I lived in Boston, and when I saw a Mercedes/Rolls-Royce dealer, I thought, ‘I’d like to work there.’ I asked about a job, but the boss said, ‘We’re not hiring now.’ Monday morning I returned. I went to the car-wash bay, said, ‘I’m the new guy,’ and started washing cars. After three days or four days, the boss saw me and asked, ‘What’s he doing here?’ The car-wash guy said, ‘He’s a hard worker.’ I said, ‘I figured I’d work here until you hired me.’ And I got the job. That attitude has always worked for me.”

I have to hand to Jay on that one. I never thought of just showing up and hope I got the job. Have you? Would you be willing to do that?

This week focus on the impression you leave on people. Are you looking for a new job? Are you willing to be persistent and positive no matter what happens? As a role model what impression do you leave with your children and/or staff? Are you always aware of your outward appearance and the message you are conveying?

Reader Responses

“Impressions stay with everyone. And they are hard to overcome. It is important, especially in social situations, to show our best side. So, dressing well, good grooming and a winning smile are important in winning over people. But I do think most people are good at seeing through to the real person. We can see through those people who are over the top in the way they dress and talk. But if we are sincere in the way we approach others, especially with making eye contact, those first impressions are beneficial in relationships – personal and business. When we dress well and look clean, it shows others that we not only have respect for ourselves but for those we meet. When we arrive to meet people for an interview or a social get-together scruffy and unkempt, we are signaling that we just don’t care enough to take the time to look our best. I have heard people’s excuses that they did not have the time. But the bottom line is that they did not care. Period. Taking the time to make a good first impression says volumes about who we are, and it can help us in many ways of our lives. Great word, Susan. I’m sure you have heard the phrase “You never get a second chance to make a first impression,” and that what this is all about. Take care. Have a great weekend. “Warrior” Joe Moran.”

Word Of the Week #43: Persistence

April 21, 2009 by · Comments Off on Word Of the Week #43: Persistence 

Persistence: continuing in a course of action without regard to opposition or previous failure.

On Course in Antarctica

On Course in Antarctica

Have you ever failed at something and continued to try again?

One of the most successful people I know failed for five years before he started having some degrees of success. Now, that’s persistence!

You probably have heard of him too. He moved to Nashville to make it as a country singer. He was rejected by 26 record labels before securing a record deal. His debut album sold only 324 copies. Flat broke, he moved to south Florida and played in the local bars where, at times, nobody even showed up.

In 1974, he had his first hit single. But it wasn’t until 1977 that he became an “overnight” star. Have you figured out who it is? Jimmy Buffet! He continues to be one of the top grossing acts and has a cult following. He has continued his success by creating a clothing company, restaurants, writing children’s books and several other ventures.

The question is, “Would you be persistent for seven years?” When we really want something and know it in our heart, we will do whatever it takes to keep going. This week focus on what changes you may need to take to continue in your course of action without regard to opposition or previous failure.

Reader Responses

“I saw a program on Jimmy Buffet the other evening. I didn’t know he had that many failures, perhaps it was the margaritas? One of my mottos is “Persistence Until!” Don’t wait for your ship to come in, swim out to it! Great story!” — Don Vance

“I didn’t know this about Jimmy Buffet…. Awesome story. This past week, I learned alittle bit about persistence personally! I’ve struggled physically since 1997….but always refusing to “give up or lye down”….I’ve persisted…… Just yesterday I was made UNIT MANAGER….AND I’m so darn proud that I have never stopped being persistent….even when I wasn’t sure what direction that drive was taking me….even when I was WAY off course….. I still persisted!  Thank GOD and my friends, family (and you) who always encouraged me…in all ways….For HE knows the plan for my life, declares the Lord…..(Jeremiah 29:11)…and here I stand firm today.” –Cathie Capolino

“One of the things that I have learned in my life is polite persistence. I think I inherited the trait from my parents. We just keep on pressing toward the mark. I have always believed that as one door closes, another opens. It might not be next week or next year, but it will happen. Eventually, our time does come.  A lot of times I try to remind myself that time isn’t real. It is just one’s point of view, or perspective. But until that time comes, I just try to enjoy each moment and each day as it comes, because of the unknown opportunities that come along. Thanks, Susan. I needed that reminder about persistence.” — Joe Moran.

“Jimmy Buffet…one of my favorites!!! I guess the song “Margaritaville” really set his career in motion. What a great story and a great topic…PERSISTANCE…the key to success in the sales field. Hope all is well!!!” — Charles Rich